No apologies needed.
Initially when I started this thread I had blinders on. I was under the opinion that what I was considering (purchasing a plane) was the right thing to do and renting a plane for 150 to 160 hours for me and my wife would be a waste of good money. For someone as inexperienced as myself it seemed the logical thing to do, especially with both me and my wife going to utilize it. At the onset it seemed the most cost effective thing to do. And, even after having my eyes pried open to look at other options, I'm still not so sure it isn't if the right one comes along. I realize that it is not likely, but it can happen. With a little patience, a lot of luck and a lot of research, it can happen.
But, I have been given a reality check by many who have real world experiences and much smaller wallets after having bought what they thought was a good deal. They had their reasons and the best of intentions just as I do.
I appreciate their efforts to help me understand exactly what I would be getting myself into. The responsibilites of not only money but time as well. They have helped me consider that ownership right off the bat may not be in my best interest when there is so many other things in life that could be short changed if I have problems with the plane, my personal life, loose interest etc. I now understand and respect their views.
I also want to own my own plane. Maybe a good blend of the two will work for me. I'll try renting for a while but then if something comes along that seems like it is "the right one", then I'll take my leap of faith.
No Shelby, no apologies are needed for sharing your opinion with me. I appreciate hearing from someone who has an "alternate view".